This means remembering sex does not always = intimacy. This means accepting that some muses will not be as into sex as non-asexual muses. and can’t risk that stuff showing up on their feed. This includes tagging content of that nature as things such as “babies don’t look”, “how dare you have fun here” “innocents don’t look”, “people who hate fun don’t look” – Do what you need to not get shadowbanned, but there’s plenty of people who don’t want to see things of a sexual nature, or people who are on their work’s wifi or such, etc. This means if you tag things, not being condescending and berating with your tags for n.fw images, writing, etc. for any muse that is not meant to be shipped romantically. This means not deeming it “sad” or “such a shame” and etc. This also means if a muse is Aromantic, NOT pushing to mun to romantically ship that muse anyway. (How do you find this out? Communication! Ask what the mun is comfortable with!) If they DO write smut, this means not pressuring them to do it more than they would like/are comfortable with.
This means being okay with slow build/burn relationships between muses instead of pushing for muses to fall in love instantly, or skip the beginning steps of a ship if the mun stresses they want things to progress naturally. This means NOT pressuring to ship or EXPECTING a ship out of them. This means NOT pressuring/forcing them to smut if they don’t want to or are on the fence about it. You can read more about the asexual spectrum HERE(x) RESPECT aspec Muns: This is your friendly reminder from an Ace rper (Aphobes do not interact with this post and tbh unfollow):
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